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I am Lillian Kaiser M.Sc., a Certified Professional Coach, COR.E Leadership Dynamic Specialist and Neuro-Linguistic Practitioner (NLP). I am also a business owner and intrapreneur. My business is focus around helping brave, strong women to find their voices, know their value, and lead from a place of authenticity, without apology or excuses.
So, how did I get here?
I was born into a family of women. Strong, Brave, Bold Women. Yet, what I notice most was that the women in my family were living their lives through a set of filters that dictated the proper way women should act and be. Filters that conditioned these women in a matter that would protect, and keep them safe. Meanwhile, these well-meaning messages of conditioning kept these wonderful women in their rightful place as mother's and caretakers. Keeping them from fully experiencing life.
Does this sound familiar? As a woman there are certain expectations rules place on us. Some are there to help you navigate the world. While others are in place to keep us safe, These well-meaning messages result in silencing our voice, decreasing our self-esteem, causing us to doubt our self-worth.
Considering I had three brothers, those filters didn't quite work for me. I was there front and center with my brothers. Then, when it came time to choose a career, my brothers dreamt of being an astronaut, firefighter, and veterinarian. While I was deciding, my mother shared her thoughts for me, "Just become a secretary, married your boss, and he'll take care of you for the rest of your life." I know she meant well, but what a limiting life! I wanted to live for myself. I wanted to do more, be more.
So, how did I get here?
I was born into a family of women. Strong, Brave, Bold Women. Yet, what I notice most was that the women in my family were living their lives through a set of filters that dictated the proper way women should act and be. Filters that conditioned these women in a matter that would protect, and keep them safe. Meanwhile, these well-meaning messages of conditioning kept these wonderful women in their rightful place as mother's and caretakers. Keeping them from fully experiencing life.
Does this sound familiar? As a woman there are certain expectations rules place on us. Some are there to help you navigate the world. While others are in place to keep us safe, These well-meaning messages result in silencing our voice, decreasing our self-esteem, causing us to doubt our self-worth.
Considering I had three brothers, those filters didn't quite work for me. I was there front and center with my brothers. Then, when it came time to choose a career, my brothers dreamt of being an astronaut, firefighter, and veterinarian. While I was deciding, my mother shared her thoughts for me, "Just become a secretary, married your boss, and he'll take care of you for the rest of your life." I know she meant well, but what a limiting life! I wanted to live for myself. I wanted to do more, be more.
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So, breaking free from social normalcies, I joined the military. While my mother's intentions were good, I knew there was more to life. So, I set out to explore the world and create my own way. Little did I know, we would be one of the first female platoon to train alongside our male counterparts as equals. It was the beginning of a new era and something to be proud of.
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I am in the third row on your right
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Of course, that was not without its challenges. The conditioning of my family, sociality and the church engraved in me were still present. After I married and had two amazing children, my path had shifted again. My second child was born with two birth challenges. Wanting more for my children, I decided to go back to school.
The act of bettering myself challenged my husband's masculinity. I found this interesting. After all, he did marry a soldier? Still, it's what needed to be done. So, I followed through, entering the field of computer science, a male-dominated field (at the time), which triggered my internal conditioning. Once again, I was surrounded by the patriarchs' double standards, much like the military. Do you see the pattern?
Yet, through all my adventures there was one constant...
I was slowly unveiling myself, tearing down the walls of
parental, social, and religious conditioning and allowing my
true authentic self to shine though.
I was slowly unleashing the Matriarch within.
What I learned:
What I learned:
- I learned how to rewrite the old conditioning that keep me safe, so I could not only survive but THRIVE!
- I learn how to change my Mindset, so I could expand my comfort zone and my world.
- I learned I am complete within myself.
- I learned how to put myself first. If I'm not at my best, how can I help others.
- I learned to trust my instincts, no long needing external validation.
- I learned my opinions, thoughts, and voice mattered.
- I learned how to use my voice to express myself with clarity and confidently.
- I learned that conforming to the point of losing myself is a waste of my God/Goddess giving talents.
- Most importantly, I realized how wonderful it is just to fully be ME,
Today, I am a business owner, coach, consulting, mentor and women advocate. Helping women who are ready to tear down the walls of conditioning. So they can create a live that passion and purpose on their terms
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